Life in DU

Got up with a lazy face,went to the washroom to freshen up, slept on the pot to think what is going deep down or i should say WHILE thinking myself as a super hero. Finally, i won over all the obstacles. Credit goes to my hard work and constant motivational speeches( just a positive form of saying admonitions) from my parents. After winning, I celebrated my victory with a glass milk(which i hate) and newspaper.

Opened the newspaper and saw Kareena Kapoor dancing, Megan Fox running and Katrina Kaif drinking (aam panna). Guys possess special set of eyes. Only women are seen in one look,that too hot ones. To notice guys, we need to work harder. In between my angels, I saw some information of different colleges of DU.
I read few points. After 15 minutes i thought, " What a crap is this man!! There is nothing about canteen masti, running out of the class when teacher is writing, fighting with a gang if they have messed with your gang member. Just then I went to my room and wrote what I will tell the freshers about DU.
First of all, 5 DONTs. Because, its DU my friend,not the school. Its more important to learn DONTS first. If you don't agree, then have a look-


1) First and most the important one, Never ever ever talk to a friend of yours on phone while with a senior. If you do so, then at least don't ever tell your friend that the senior is a guy (make him jealous by describing some sexy female otherwise he will laugh at your bad luck),is bossy and is dragging you all the way to CP for his work. I know what will happen next and I want each of you to experience it. Why should I ruin the excitement...
2) Never laugh at any one in the college even if he/she is looking like a jackass. Later, he or she can introduce himself/herself as your teacher. Then, you will have a high level of rebuke in front of your class.

3) Never think that you have links and you are the boss. The Other person may have enough links to scare off yours. It can be very dangerous for your body, road and people walking on the road.
4) Never make a girlfriend in your class. Even try to avoid same college. This will give you the freedom to look for other beauties when she is not around. If you don't agree then listen to a few songs of a Bollywood movie, "Pyaar Ka Panchnama". Guys would understand this point.

CAUTION- Not following the above point can make your cheeks turn red and hot (hot is not something good here).
5) Never try to run out of the class while a teacher is writing. You are not KKKKrish, foot steps make sound. Common sense is not that common guys. Teacher can give you one of the biggest punishments for this offense.
Make you sit in the front row (Can't forget that entire week, urrrrrggggghhhhh).
Now few things that you should DU in the college. After all, college life is to enjoy.
DOs

1. Try to do all the DONTs. So that you can learn the importance of my golden words.
2. For all the dudes, do sneak into GCR (Girls Common Room) when no one is around and inside. There are comfortable sofas and mirrors all around.
3. For all the girls, do make a boyfriend. He would be your cashier and bodyguard.
4. Do eat Maggie and drink coffee near Law Faculty in winters. The atmosphere around, chilling weather and friends. All are at their top most level. 
5. Call Kamla Nagar as KNax and Vijay Nagar as VNax. It sounds cool as well as a mark to distinguish a DU student from the crowd.

This is what a DUait should know before entering the Restricted Zone where nothing is restricted.

Practicality V/S Emotions

                           Practicality???                                                 Emotions????
                                                             Tough to choose one ??
But the interesting part is that the importance of answering this question increases with the severity of a problem. Sometimes, life makes us go through a rout which leaves us livid and broken and in such a condition, we become answerable to our own selves. The question always hangs between two options- PRACTICALITY or EMOTIONS!.

All major issues in life usually halt at this point. Every person thinks differently and handles this condition in his/her own style. Lets have a better look at both the parts and lets see who among the two wins the race.
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First, see a condition where we need to act in a practical manner.
Lets take one of the most complicated situations we face nowadays- A BREAK UP. Around 69.7% people are in a relationship all over the world. And now something horrifying... Around 4 people out of them try to commit suicide EVERY HOUR  due to the grief of a break up or divorce. These are just rough estimations from some reputed newspapers and journals.
What should happen when two people break up?
Two people living in harmony should MUTUALLY DECIDE to change their paths. So that, none of them ever tries to cut each other's path again.
What actually happens when two people break up?
One of the two decides that its more than enough for them.He either starts giving indirect hints or tells his partner directly about his feelings.
In this way, feelings of the other one get trapped within , resulting into the latter trying to contact the former even after a breakup.The former  would start getting irritated and and would finally use the tool of ignorance. This contention cannot be solved by applying any rocket-science. The other person goes through quite a few lonely and mourning sessions regularly.And finally, when mental strength gives up, they take up the path of self-destruction.
Do you think, that one should give away his life just because of such a person??
Personally I don't think so. For me, its not a case of suicide but a MURDER. The faith,love,feelings and future of that person are brutally murdered by his/her partner.
In such a condition, everybody thinks emotionally. But there is a need to change the course. One has to be strong enough to fight back and enjoy their life even more.
I know its easier said than done.In fact I myself have gone through a break up,rather a painful one and faced similar problems. But one day your pain would surely  come to an end. Maybe the end is not visible, but it is somewhere there.       Always Keep Fighting with your inner self and win over it!!

                                                                                                            
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Lets see the next case where one should have an emotional point of view.
 
Career is defined by the Oxford English Dictionary as a person's "course or progress through life (or a distinct portion of life)". For choosing a career, different people have different parameters.
1) Because of a close friend or girlfriend/boyfriend.
It is the Most foolish and dumb reason for choosing your career path.
2) I don't know what I want. Let's just follow what the crowd is doing.
No need to comment here.
:P
3) I just need money.
I don't think such people can ever learn to make the world follow them. They will just follow the commands of the world.
3) I don't know what I want. So, I will do what my parents want me to do.
This option is sensible enough. If a person is confused, best reference are your parents,but this doesn't mean that you wont use your brain.
4) Some choose a career to follow their PASSION.

These people dare to go past something called as "impossible". They can break all barriers and its because they follow what their heart says. They do what they were good at. They go with the flow of their emotions.
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We had two case studies to see that which one is the better option.
Honestly, I feel that Emotions are more important. But to succeed in the world,  there is need to add a pinch of practicality  into the dish named life, it would taste better for sure!!
Never be too emotional or too practical.
Being too emotional  may hamper your efficiency at work, at home and eventually in your whole life. Too much practicality can also turn a person into evil. He himself wont come to know that when did he transform into a SELFISH SCAVENGER, . Life is a riddle and every riddle has a key. Try using the emotional key first and if it doesn't work, try mixing practicality to it.



P.S- Some things in life are meant to be given away. If none of your key works, try to change the door and your way. One will find a door that will open with the available keys. One which will open, Is your way...                                                          

Friendship-Matter of Time or Feelings

Few days back, I met an old friend of mine. We had a normal chit chat about every day life and then we moved in different directions. As my steps were moving forward, my memory started moving backwards. Many nostalgic memories started popping in my mind.
We were like best buddies during school life. People use to call us Laurel and Hardy. Sometimes, they even asked that "Are you both brothers?"
Earlier we used to say a no but with time it changed into yes. I still remember, by mistake I wrote his number instead of mine and even he did same in a form.
But time changed everything.
During 11th and 12th standard, we choose different streams and drifted apart. Number of encounters decreased and so did the phone calls. Somehow, 2years of separation ended and we again gained contact. We started living two lives. One was college life and other was reprise school life.

 Happiness and sadness are two sides of a coin. Coin flipped and sadness came upside.
One fight changed our paths.
Both us didn't talk due to our so called "ego". And everything changed.
This incident made me ask some questions to myself

• Is friendship possible only when you guys have a regular contact?
• Can one change, bring big changes in your life?
• Are relationships easy to forget and move ahead?

 No doubt, friendship is enriched with nutrients like regular contact, knowing each other better, trust etc. Every one loves when you get to spend free time with a friend and if lucky then with your best friend. But when we talk about strong bonding and long term friendship then I think regular meetings can be removed from the list.
Life makes you learn many things. It made me learn this secret of friendship in course of life.
Luckily, I have got another jewel or friend in my life. We guys are also very much attached and love spending free time daily with each other. This time again sadness won and responsibilities was the weapon. When I realised that he is feeling same as I felt for my old friend, a golden rule of life struck my head.
TIME YOU SPEND TOGETHER IS NEVER JUDGEMENTAL IF FEELINGS REMAIN UNALTERED.

But the game doesn't end here. Last clause is most important. Feelings are like a connection between two people. It can change the world around you.
Those who can't understand your problem and blame you for it should be made to see the past when you did everything as per their choice. In today's fast world, friendship is used as a stair by some. People put their weight on you and move ahead.
So,remember friends
Stick to those who want to stick to you,what so ever the conditions are.

Life- A definition of its own

L- Live

I- It with

F- Full

E- Energy

This is what life is all about.

Every day can seem similar or different. Every second of life can be monotonous or adventurous.Every thing can be dull or colorful.

Why this thought of life came into my mind?
All this started few days back when I finished my semester exams. During exam time, I had an aim in life. It was to study and perform better in exams. I had 8 exams in mere 10 days. Every one said its impossible. Few said that its tough to even imagine. But my view was totally different. I was excited and all set for the coming fight. As the battle began, my energy levels doubled. 

I gave all my exams with high spirits and low sleeping hours. Even such tough conditions gave me more strength and zeal to fight harder. But this happiness was short lived or can say "my happy times" were approaching.

 As the exams ended, I made plans to enjoy every day to the max limit. Two days later, I was all exhausted and bored. 

Life looked to me as a question mark. My inner energy asked me to invest it somewhere. But I had no directions, no aim and no less treaded way to enjoy. Then I realized something about life.

The more we struggle and enjoy, better the life we live.

 

Its very important to live every aspect of live to its limit. Troubled conditions make us more tough and give birth to desire for easy track. When we reach this track after a lot of struggle, we achieve an inner pleasure. This pleasure is beyond imaginable limits of human mind.

 

 

Energy and zeal to do something past possible limits makes life liveable. Life can be enjoyed to its utmost level by using your inner strength in positive and controlled way.

But practically speaking, life is not a wonderland ride. Its never so easy.

Maybe life will hurt you back in this fight. Maybe it will hit you directly on to your face. Maybe it makes you feel defeated.

But remember my friends, patience and power can drill a way out of any Himalaya of troubles. After every problem, there is a solution. After every night, there is a morning sun shine. After every pain, there is a medicine. Never ever leave "Life vs I" match unfinished. Hit it back so hard that you cross all the barriers of life and come out as a WINNER.

 

With this brimming energy, you will never be afraid of anything new in life and will always say

BRING IT ON BABY!!!

 

 

 

 

Switch on your life melody, go out of your secure place and run in the wild.