Mental Virginity- Need of The Hour(Part-2)

Weekend!!
That part of the week when one gets chance to do what all he/she was planning to do since last 5 days.

From last 2-3 months, my schedule is jam packed with various duties and tasks to be performed in time. So, I get some free time just during the weekend and I enjoy it to the utmost level.

After an over burdened week, I finally managed to see the sunrise of Saturday (I know it sounds as if I am a soldier and is engaged in some battle or so, but believe me friends, last week was nothing less than a battle). I woke up late, kept roaming in the house frivolously and kept groping for the newspaper in the house. I enjoyed doing everything in ultra-slow motion.  :-P

After the sunny day passed, I went out with a friend to make my weekend as well as this evening more enjoyable. We ate at food joint and enjoyed some good music.  As and when I came back to my place, I switched on my laptop and opened a famous site to download some rocking numbers. By mistake I typed the top level domain as ".com" in stead of the one used to open the site. And the search results were not at all linked with the music, at least not with the kind of music for which I was searching online.

I was startled when I saw the screen of my laptop. I closed the web page and tried to divert my mind but it was of no use.

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Few years back, one of my seniors told me some websites on which I can play some cool PC games. I was unaware of the actual side of the coin. When I reached home from my school, I switched on the PC and the router. I was all set to play some different and exciting games. After I click on "Go", I placed my self in front of the blue world for the first time. I clicked on few links to search for the games on those sites but my ears turned red as I saw pornographic pics all over the site. I was shocked to see those pics on the 12" screen and I just switched off the computer.

Later that night, my sister called me and asked me that what all am I watching on the computer these days?
I understood the direction of this conversation but I just tried to confabulate as if I don't know anything. My sister is like God to me. She catches all the thoughts in my mind very easily. To my surprise, she just hugged me and told me that what I did today is natural but unethical. I still remember the exact words she said to me.
She said

" Rupish, I am not at all angry with you. Its very much natural in this age group. But you should know that what you saw today is actually included in mythologies of many cultures. 

In Hindu Mythology, Greek Mythology, Christianity etc, nude paintings of God and Goddesses are very common.  They were never seen with the eyes of a nymphomaniac. This art was considered divine and religious.

Its just the filthy mind of humans that is polluting this world. Mental Virginity is more important than physical virginity. Never ever pollute your mind with such thoughts".

I cried in front of her and told her my story. She said me that I trust you and I know that you will never ever resort to such things.

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Suddenly, I came out of the past and gave a pat on my back. I was happy that after the first encounter with pornography, my sister caught me. Even though I was not the culprit but I am happy that I had to confront her on this issue. Maybe she trusted me, maybe not. But her words of trust and faith in me made me go past these things.

And why I patted myself was that

I NEVER EVER LOOKED BACK.

P.S- Later, I re-opened the explorer and deleted the history. Because if this time I was caught, she would have killed me..
:P

Life- A definition of its own

L- Live

I- It with

F- Full

E- Energy

This is what life is all about.

Every day can seem similar or different. Every second of life can be monotonous or adventurous.Every thing can be dull or colorful.

Why this thought of life came into my mind?
All this started few days back when I finished my semester exams. During exam time, I had an aim in life. It was to study and perform better in exams. I had 8 exams in mere 10 days. Every one said its impossible. Few said that its tough to even imagine. But my view was totally different. I was excited and all set for the coming fight. As the battle began, my energy levels doubled. 

I gave all my exams with high spirits and low sleeping hours. Even such tough conditions gave me more strength and zeal to fight harder. But this happiness was short lived or can say "my happy times" were approaching.

 As the exams ended, I made plans to enjoy every day to the max limit. Two days later, I was all exhausted and bored. 

Life looked to me as a question mark. My inner energy asked me to invest it somewhere. But I had no directions, no aim and no less treaded way to enjoy. Then I realized something about life.

The more we struggle and enjoy, better the life we live.

 

Its very important to live every aspect of live to its limit. Troubled conditions make us more tough and give birth to desire for easy track. When we reach this track after a lot of struggle, we achieve an inner pleasure. This pleasure is beyond imaginable limits of human mind.

 

 

Energy and zeal to do something past possible limits makes life liveable. Life can be enjoyed to its utmost level by using your inner strength in positive and controlled way.

But practically speaking, life is not a wonderland ride. Its never so easy.

Maybe life will hurt you back in this fight. Maybe it will hit you directly on to your face. Maybe it makes you feel defeated.

But remember my friends, patience and power can drill a way out of any Himalaya of troubles. After every problem, there is a solution. After every night, there is a morning sun shine. After every pain, there is a medicine. Never ever leave "Life vs I" match unfinished. Hit it back so hard that you cross all the barriers of life and come out as a WINNER.

 

With this brimming energy, you will never be afraid of anything new in life and will always say

BRING IT ON BABY!!!

 

 

 

 

Switch on your life melody, go out of your secure place and run in the wild.