And I Feel So Lonely....

Today my colleges re-opened for the next academic year.
I was supposed to be excited,happy and in crusading zeal. Instead, I was drowning in my self created black water of thoughts. There are times when you wait for something to happen but when it actually happens, you feel that it was useless waiting for that thing to happen. Something like this happened with my excitement for the colleges to re-open.
Such perplexed thoughts eclipse the beauty of the day. Person gets baffled by his own thought machinery. In the end, all these thoughts find their concentric center at "being lonely".

A person associates his/her low points by pasting the label of being lonely in life. Every one feels that life could have been better if someone would have been their. Someone,in whom we can find solace, a place just meant for "me". Someone with whom we can share all our pains. One with whom we can sit for hours and share inanity of our silly mind. A person in front of whom we can say anything,do anything, feel anything and share anything.
A person's one forth part of the life goes into drain just to find this "someone". Some lucky ones find the "someone" in their partner while the unlucky one's try to kill their loneliness using other means(like I am writing this blog to do the same :P). Even if you are having a partner, he/she may not be available when you need them. In that case, such absurd thoughts gasps into your mind.
But the question is that
Why do we always need someone when we know that we will be alone at most of the crucial situations in our life?

This can be considered as an inevitable desire of a person or ineffable need of the restless soul within our body. A person just needs a comforting hand going through the hair and giving the needed halt from the unstoppable struggle of this "not so chosen lifestyle". After an exhausting day, a person just needs that care and love which cant be quenched with any 7 hours sleep.

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Just while typing this blog, I came across a beautiful quote which gave me the needed strength and prepared me to face the next morning with the energy level at which I can lead any juggernaut. Its from some Anonymous source-
"When you are feeling lonely, your are actually an inch closer to millions of people who are having the same feeling at this moment"

I hope that it will be of some help for all those who are still feeling
Lonely!!!
P.S- One can win any battle alone man.... 
Lets Go For The Glory!!!

Friendship-Matter of Time or Feelings

Few days back, I met an old friend of mine. We had a normal chit chat about every day life and then we moved in different directions. As my steps were moving forward, my memory started moving backwards. Many nostalgic memories started popping in my mind.
We were like best buddies during school life. People use to call us Laurel and Hardy. Sometimes, they even asked that "Are you both brothers?"
Earlier we used to say a no but with time it changed into yes. I still remember, by mistake I wrote his number instead of mine and even he did same in a form.
But time changed everything.
During 11th and 12th standard, we choose different streams and drifted apart. Number of encounters decreased and so did the phone calls. Somehow, 2years of separation ended and we again gained contact. We started living two lives. One was college life and other was reprise school life.

 Happiness and sadness are two sides of a coin. Coin flipped and sadness came upside.
One fight changed our paths.
Both us didn't talk due to our so called "ego". And everything changed.
This incident made me ask some questions to myself

• Is friendship possible only when you guys have a regular contact?
• Can one change, bring big changes in your life?
• Are relationships easy to forget and move ahead?

 No doubt, friendship is enriched with nutrients like regular contact, knowing each other better, trust etc. Every one loves when you get to spend free time with a friend and if lucky then with your best friend. But when we talk about strong bonding and long term friendship then I think regular meetings can be removed from the list.
Life makes you learn many things. It made me learn this secret of friendship in course of life.
Luckily, I have got another jewel or friend in my life. We guys are also very much attached and love spending free time daily with each other. This time again sadness won and responsibilities was the weapon. When I realised that he is feeling same as I felt for my old friend, a golden rule of life struck my head.
TIME YOU SPEND TOGETHER IS NEVER JUDGEMENTAL IF FEELINGS REMAIN UNALTERED.

But the game doesn't end here. Last clause is most important. Feelings are like a connection between two people. It can change the world around you.
Those who can't understand your problem and blame you for it should be made to see the past when you did everything as per their choice. In today's fast world, friendship is used as a stair by some. People put their weight on you and move ahead.
So,remember friends
Stick to those who want to stick to you,what so ever the conditions are.