Mental Virginity-Need of The Hour(Part-3)

Guy- You are looking cute.

Girl(smiling)- Thank you..

(Talking to herself- What did he see in me that made me look cute to him? Am I looking weird or is he just trying to impress me? Is he trying to hit on me? Is he looking at me or just at my ...........?

What is actually going on in his mind? These guys are always interested in physical aspects...

Cheepoo..)

Such is our GIRL SOCIETY!!
Instead of feeling happy that she just earned a vote of compliment, she is worried that what did he actually notice.
Now just think friends-

                                              Who needs mental virginity this time??

                  

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Sometimes you confront such events which make you think that do I actually having some wrong intentions. Am I actually a bad guy.

Few days back, I faced a similar situation. A friend told me that one of my colleagues thought that I am trying to hit on her, and surprisingly this happened when I was just trying to be friendly with her.

I was so shocked by this revelation that I actually wanted to just approach her and ask that why did she felt so. All types of absurd questions about my personality started rising up in my mind. I was completely dumbstruck for some time. I even asked a very close friend that do I have some serious issues?
Only when she assured me on this, I felt better.
Phewwww...
Girls!!!
Just makes you go topsy-turvy.

You might think that why was I bloody disturbed? After all, its not that a big deal.

But

For me, it was!!

She is my co worker and due to her abstract thought process, I had to suffer for one entire month. She always acted in an ill mannered way with me. Irrespective of my level of input, she always said to me that I don't do anything. It became so irritating that every part of me suffered. Every sphere of the life got its share of this burden and my overall performance saw a big dip.

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I was travelling in the metro and was thinking about my behavior. My self introspection paused as I played some music on my phone. A popular song, "Saada Haq" diverted the focus of my mind.

Fever of this rock music changed the course of things. The anger, tension and every other thought reached its peak and the volcano erupted in the form of sweat profusion. 

That helped me a lot as i got rid of extra pressure. As soon as I got my focal length adjusted, my mind started working and recovered from the sedation. I thought every instance and re-evaluated it.

"Rohini East. Doors will open on the left. Please mind the gap"

Metro announcement lowered my body temperature and my CPU got some rest.

Now my Crazzzzzzy Rupish was out of the cage.

My mind started popping some cool (for me), crazy (for others) and bugging(for her) thoughts.

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Thing to think is that is it only the mental narrowness of agnatic society or is it just a pseudo presumption of effiminate people?

I guess the need of the hour is to open this narrowness irrespective of the sex.
Time to think some more...

P.S- One of my crazy thoughts was to write this blog and post it on her FB account...

Dad- My Super Hero

Drove 18.7kms to reach the Service Tax Office in afternoon. Parked the car in parking of the office and went inside with my dad. Entered the restricted section of the office, THE SALES TAX BAR ASSOCIATION. My Dad is an advocate and visits these offices frequently. Got a seat next to him. A peon came and offered us water. I Quenched my thirst and just had a look all around. I don't know what happened to me but I just felt like giving PA A TIGHT HUG!!!
I had many emotions in my heart which were ready to burst out. Somehow, I managed to control myself. Complete life history flashed in my mind and was lost in some other world.
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Superman and Batman are some of the most renowned heroes of the comic world. While in reel-life, Hrithik Roshan, Aamir Khan, Al Pacino and Gary Cooper are famous.
In real life, only one super hero is known- A Father.

Heroes in films and comics are always picturised as someone with super-natural powers, who can fight with every problem and win. In real life, Father is one who doesn't possess any super-power but has the capability and strength to get into any trouble and save his child from it, not caring about himself.
This was a little emotional part. But actually,

• How to define "DAD"?

When doctor tells a woman that she is pregnant, then she is the only person responsible for protecting her child till the child is not born and is inside her womb. Delivery is termed as the most painful process in which a human being survives. So, her affection is unquestionable and ineffable.

After the birth of the child, the responsibility of "protection" shifts to a newly introduced character for the child, FATHER. The moment he takes his child in hands, his world comes to a stand still. He forgets all his problems with a mere touch of the child. The moment he brings the child close to his chest, heart beats stops for some time to protect the child even from the slight vibration of his heart.
That's how I can define a Father.
As the child grows, he/she starts to crawl on the floor. The transition from crawling to the baby-steps is due to a father. He would always take the finger of the child in his hand and try to make him walk. He will always hold the child from sides to protect him from falling down.

A baby boy will play his first ball and baby girl will paddle her first bicycle in presence of her Father. Baby Boy would grow up to become a friend and a support to his Father and Baby Girl would become an emotional and mental strength of him.
For a boy, his dad is an Inspiration. He is like someone with a Towering Personality who will be always behind him whenever he needs him. Be it any thing, his dad would understand. After entering teen age, Father is more like a Friend to him. One with whom he can play chess, Carom Board, T.V Video Games. One with whom he will sit for hours and repair various electronic gadgets at home. One with whom he can sit and watch news just because his dad wants to see what is going on.
And for a Daughter, dad is someone whom she can trust blindly. A son can still fight with his dad but a daughter would always do whatever her Father would ask her to do. Dad is her inner power. She can fight with the world if her dad is behind her. Her dad's respect is everything for her. Without his support, she feels herself to be lonely and fragile as he is the support that can hold her together.
As they mature-

a boy always has this thing in his mind that Only Friend Who Will Never Hurt Him is HIS DAD and a girl realizes that that Her Dad Is The Only Guy Who Will Never Break Her Heart and Will Think Best For Her.

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Suddenly my father shook me and asked, "U slept Beta?"
My answer was,"Just woke up Dad".
Probably he didn't understand why I said so but I meant what I said to him.
Maybe he is not the perfect man, maybe he possesses thousands of flaws. But for me he is
MY DAD- MY ONLY SUPER HERO!!!