Practicality V/S Emotions

                           Practicality???                                                 Emotions????
                                                             Tough to choose one ??
But the interesting part is that the importance of answering this question increases with the severity of a problem. Sometimes, life makes us go through a rout which leaves us livid and broken and in such a condition, we become answerable to our own selves. The question always hangs between two options- PRACTICALITY or EMOTIONS!.

All major issues in life usually halt at this point. Every person thinks differently and handles this condition in his/her own style. Lets have a better look at both the parts and lets see who among the two wins the race.
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First, see a condition where we need to act in a practical manner.
Lets take one of the most complicated situations we face nowadays- A BREAK UP. Around 69.7% people are in a relationship all over the world. And now something horrifying... Around 4 people out of them try to commit suicide EVERY HOUR  due to the grief of a break up or divorce. These are just rough estimations from some reputed newspapers and journals.
What should happen when two people break up?
Two people living in harmony should MUTUALLY DECIDE to change their paths. So that, none of them ever tries to cut each other's path again.
What actually happens when two people break up?
One of the two decides that its more than enough for them.He either starts giving indirect hints or tells his partner directly about his feelings.
In this way, feelings of the other one get trapped within , resulting into the latter trying to contact the former even after a breakup.The former  would start getting irritated and and would finally use the tool of ignorance. This contention cannot be solved by applying any rocket-science. The other person goes through quite a few lonely and mourning sessions regularly.And finally, when mental strength gives up, they take up the path of self-destruction.
Do you think, that one should give away his life just because of such a person??
Personally I don't think so. For me, its not a case of suicide but a MURDER. The faith,love,feelings and future of that person are brutally murdered by his/her partner.
In such a condition, everybody thinks emotionally. But there is a need to change the course. One has to be strong enough to fight back and enjoy their life even more.
I know its easier said than done.In fact I myself have gone through a break up,rather a painful one and faced similar problems. But one day your pain would surely  come to an end. Maybe the end is not visible, but it is somewhere there.       Always Keep Fighting with your inner self and win over it!!

                                                                                                            
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Lets see the next case where one should have an emotional point of view.
 
Career is defined by the Oxford English Dictionary as a person's "course or progress through life (or a distinct portion of life)". For choosing a career, different people have different parameters.
1) Because of a close friend or girlfriend/boyfriend.
It is the Most foolish and dumb reason for choosing your career path.
2) I don't know what I want. Let's just follow what the crowd is doing.
No need to comment here.
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3) I just need money.
I don't think such people can ever learn to make the world follow them. They will just follow the commands of the world.
3) I don't know what I want. So, I will do what my parents want me to do.
This option is sensible enough. If a person is confused, best reference are your parents,but this doesn't mean that you wont use your brain.
4) Some choose a career to follow their PASSION.

These people dare to go past something called as "impossible". They can break all barriers and its because they follow what their heart says. They do what they were good at. They go with the flow of their emotions.
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We had two case studies to see that which one is the better option.
Honestly, I feel that Emotions are more important. But to succeed in the world,  there is need to add a pinch of practicality  into the dish named life, it would taste better for sure!!
Never be too emotional or too practical.
Being too emotional  may hamper your efficiency at work, at home and eventually in your whole life. Too much practicality can also turn a person into evil. He himself wont come to know that when did he transform into a SELFISH SCAVENGER, . Life is a riddle and every riddle has a key. Try using the emotional key first and if it doesn't work, try mixing practicality to it.



P.S- Some things in life are meant to be given away. If none of your key works, try to change the door and your way. One will find a door that will open with the available keys. One which will open, Is your way...